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Visiting Paris Anytime Soon? Let’s Talk About It!

I don’t think of myself as an “expert” on Paris.  But,  I’ve been to the City of Lights many times in the past fifteen years that would place me on a level of being comfortable enough that I can find my way around, understand a good deal of the language, speak a small amount of the French language—enough to get the point across, and have acquired some savvy in how to make the most of my visits.

 

I’m not jaded but after driving past the Eiffel Tower for many, many years, I keep forgetting to tell people to visit it.  So…if you’re going to be in Paris at least hang out on the grounds for some good photo ops of this gorgeous structure!

Paris, like New York City, is my happy place.  I’m definitely a “City Girl” and am at my best when I’m in a large city—there’s always something to do and Paris personifies that vibe.

You’re going to Paris for the first time and you’ve been planning this trip for a long, long time.  You’ve been saving your money. You’ve been perusing the internet to research museums, restaurants, sights, hotels, and studying “what French women wear”.

First things first.  Stop studying what French women wear. Do not look at online articles or Instagram posts of how to dress like a French girl and all that fluff.  The fact is unless you are in the midst of the 16h arrondissement or sauntering on Avenue Foch, you will be more likely to see women and men dressing more like patrons of any other major city.

Seriously.  Do not dress like this when you are in Paris.  A beret is fine on it’s own. In the winter.  A Breton striped shirt is fine on it’s own.  In the summer at the beach.  Together they say “I’m trying so hard to look French”. Nobody dresses like this in Paris.  Trust me.

Also, try not to make your itinerary too ambitious.  Paris is a city that was made to be savored.  Be a flaneur or a Flâneuse.  Wander the streets.

Walk till you need to rest your feet!

  Take note of the beauty in window displays.  Stop at a square to sit and people-watch.  Head to a centuries-old, musty-scented church for reflection (even if you are an atheist—honestly, you will still enjoy) and to appreciate the artistry of the icons, stained glass and so on.

Take it easy.  Walk around.  Stop and take a good look at the beauty of the city!

With that said, let’s talk!

  1. Decide what you want to concentrate on: This might sound silly but it makes sense. Are you a museum person?  Are you a food person?  Ballet/Opera person?  History Buff?  Are you comfortable seeing the city on your own, or would you feel more comfortable in a small tour group?  Make what you really love to be the focus of the trip.    Paris has a ton of museums and sites to see.  Make a list. Make a couple of lists and narrow those lists down to “Must See’s”.

Below is a listing of some of the sites that I enjoy and have been more than once. This by no means anything that you must do—it’s just subjective.

This is it. Napoleon’s Tomb at Les Invalides–but there’s so much more here and it is an incredibly interesting museum!

Manet’s “Luncheon on the Grass” is just one of the many wonders of the Orsay.  I definitely would recommend this for a first Paris visit vs. the Louvre!  Just my opnion. It’s less overwhelming!

There’s much more to see at the musee l’orangerie but the big attraction here is Manet’s Water Lilies.  Late afternoon is a good time to visit this museum!

The Alphonse Mucha exhibit was one of the best I’ve ever seen and it was in the small Musee du Luxembourg! You can stroll through the gardens then make a stop here–having a lovely afternoon!

Be prepared to spend a few hours here. This is a treasure chest of all things intriguing and interesting about Paris.  I LOVED the Carnavalet and you will too!

A somber memorial, the Shoah is something that everyone should see.  It’s a very moving tribute to those murdered during WWII.

These buses are always full during the summer months but really–it’s more fun to hoof it!

Tour Guide Supreme!  Veronique of Vero Tours!  Check her schedule because if you ever need a guide around Paris, she is the one you want!

  1. Get Your $hit Together: This is important.  I’m not kidding.

Be mindful. As great as Air France is, a strike can occur at any time. I know this too well! These guys should have been flying planes. Instead they were trying to dress like French girls with their Breton shirts! As I write this, the trains and metro are on strike!

  1. Don’t Overpack: My husband swears I have a very odd obsession on this subject.  But I digress.  Overpacking is a waste. A waste of time because the more you pack, the more you will waste time mulling over what to wear.  A waste of money because the airlines charge money for additional luggage these days—especially American Airlines–$60 a bag for economy flyers.  If I could pack five days of clothing in a carry on—and that’s including wigs and makeup, then you can do it!   Repeat wears—nobody is judging you.  Keep a monochromatic tone.  I wear a lot of black and navy.

Five days worth of clothing, two pairs of boots, three wigs and makeup were stuffed into this.  Caveat: a blazer was placed in my husband’s suitcase.

Below is a listing of clothes that I may like to suggest i for about five days in Paris. Note—in the summer, I pack mostly dresses because it’s one-stop dressing.

Chippy helps to pack!  Both pairs have stretch. Trust me you want comfort and any pant with stretch will offer that.  In addition, a pont knit or any knit won’t wrinkle and is comfortable for flight time!

No matter what the season, Paris can be pretty rainy. And jeans will suffice well for damp weather. These AG Jeans are light enough for all seasons yet will keep you warm in cold weather.  

Quite possibly the most comfortable pair of shoes I own. However, they’ve been discontinued. by Cole-Haan due to the Air Nike thing.  Although I’ve never owned or worn Tieks, I understand they are ridiculously comfortable. They could prove to be a dupe for these!

A flat bootie such as these from Nine West are great for walking around in colder weather. I was so glad I took these on our recent trip. It was rainy and damp and these were perfect!

THE perfect bootie for dressing up a bit.  These booties by Geox were purchased at Galeries Lafayette in 2018. They have a heel but are incredibly comfortable. They were worn every night to dinner-dressed up the pants!

Tee-shirts under sweaters is great for layering during the cooler months.  During the winter you might want to add a turtleneck or two!

A colorful scarf such as this will go with every color shirt/sweater/tee you bring..

Here it is worn over a navy sweater and cheap costume pearls. 

The HG of travel makeup. So great, I have two! This is perfect for travel!

All three items are from Walmart.  And let me tell you, nobody will be standing so close to you to judge.  Simple items that are not fussy will give a more expensive appearance!

 Make Reservations:     Make dinner reservations well in advance.  Restaurants in Paris get crowded. Especially on the weekends.  If you show up at a popular restaurant without a reservation, you could be kept waiting for over an hour. And when you do make reservations, keep a copy of the confirmation as proof.  Almost every restaurant allows you the comfort of booking a table online.  OpenTable.com is excellent.  Believe me when I tell you this is important.  An example, last year the husband and I decided that we would take a chance and make last-minute reservations at Allard and when I say “last minute” I mean the day before.  As we entered the restaurant another couple behind us walked in off the street and were turned away.  Resos are a must.  Print out the reservation confirmations, place in a folder and take the confirmation with you to the restaurant.  Please note that the restaurant listing isn’t extensive. This is largely due to the fact that for many years, before Daniele’s passing, we were spoiled by having meals prepared by her housekeeper.  Below are some of the places we frequent and like.

It’s a neighborhood place.  In the summer you can eat outside.  The food is consistently great…

….and the card for you!

Located next to Paul is Le Caveau. You can have dinner on Place Dauphine more than once!

Frenchie Restaurant. I can’t find any of my pics from here. But I can tell you the first time we visited , it was one of the best meals I had ever eaten!

Le Procope. So nice we ate there twice!  Make reservations if you do not want to wait for a table!

Mmm. Mmmmm.  The Floating Island dessert at Allard was outstanding!!

I’m truly shocked that it took me over a decade to find out how great this cafe is!  Definitely take a meal here!

  1. Shopping   Shopping in Paris can be fun and can also be challenging. Try to stick to products and clothing that are exclusive to France and not the States.  And you know what?  The majority of us visiting are not of the socio-economic grouping that will go on a spree at Dior, or Chanel, or Givenchy or any other haute couture fashion house.   There is a plethora of boutiques throughout the city that have beautiful clothing, accessories, shoes, purses for reasonable prices.  And the great thing is that they are unique and not something you’ll find here.  Naturally, exceptions can be made but for the most part, stick to what you won’t find at home!  One thing before I list—while I realize that Louis Vuitton is extremely popular, if you are searching for a LV bag, head to the boutique on Place Saint-Germain des Pres. You will thank me later because many of the LV shops, especially at Galeries Lafayette, have insanely long lines. I’m not kidding. It’s crazy.

It isn’t a trip to Paris unless I stop at CityPharma. Honestly. It’s the first shopping I do.  Early in the morning before the crowds hit. I’m in and out.  Trust me, once you go here, you will NEVER go to Paris and NOT stop at CityPharma!

When we’re in the South of France, I always stop by the Fragonard Perfumerie in Grasse.  When in Paris, I prefer the Blvd. St. Germain shop. It’s adorable and I can load up on favorites.   Santal is my new HG for the winter and I can’t get enough of it!

This bag was purchased at Sophie Sacs in November of 2018.  I stinking LOVE this bag.  There are no logos. Nothing fancy. It’s just a big bag in a color you don’t often see. The leather is butter soft and…

It holds a TON of stuff.  I took this to Paris this November and often use it as a “travel” purse .  It cost around  100 Euros.  Another tip. Buy things that you will use on a regular rotation.  And unique!

These little shopping sacs are priceless at 1.50 euros.  I keep one in every bag and have bought them as litte gifts.  They hold a good amount of groceries and are strong!

My newest pair of Repetto ballet flats.  I needed Navy.  And these are narrow-feet friendly!

This camel coat was purchased at Galeries Lafayette and I’ve been wearing it pretty-much every day!  It was on a Black Friday discount!

We browsed at Bon Marche. It’s VERY pricey but we did manage to pick up Christmas cards!

Among great airport deals, these patent Repettos. I think they were under 50 euros!

And what is quite possibly, the greatest deal ever.  A Longchamp weekender that was 43 euros. Nobody wanted the color. Personally, I love it because the dirtier it gets, the less attractive it’ll be to sticky fingers!

  1. Study your Neighborhoods!  This is important! I have a cousin who stayed in the 13th arrondissement when she visited Paris for the first time. She didn’t have a great time and I was so upset that she hadn’t talked to me before she made her plans.

We love the 6th!  A lively location that’s convenient and has just what we need…

…and I ALWAYS stop at Carrefour to pick up my fix of Banana Juice!  Some love the wine in France. I love Banana juice!

  1. Getting Around: It’s relatively easy to get around Paris via public transport.

Comfortable shoes are an absolute!  I’ve had these Cole-Haan Air Nike Ballet Flats for ten years now and they come with me on every trip.  They are only now showing wear..

  1. More stuff to remember

Photograph the ordinary.  This photo was taken from Bonaparte’s Aunt Daniele’s kitchen. I LOVED cooking in her kitchen because it was a pleasure to look at the rooftops.  To this day, this remains one of my favorite photos!

Another favorite is this random pic of a basket of croissant..

And I was astounded with the pragmatic way Christmas trees are sold. “Stands” are cut from the trunk then the tree is placed in the trunk stand.  I had to take a photo of this because I’m now obsessed as to why we don’t to this in the States!

In the early morning, there is coffee in the lobby. This comes in handy whilst waiting for the cab to take you to the airport..

And might I add that the lobby is incredibly toasty warm and cozy and feels like home..

And this small hotel offers quite a hearty breakfast!

As you can see, this pocket guide is 8 years old now but still comes in handy…

It has pull-out maps of arrondissements. There’s talk of some arrondissements being merged so I may be buying a new pocket guide in the future for big changes.

And there’s a Metro Map (doesn’t do good while the Metro is on strike).  This tiny book is chock-full of everything!

Honestly, I could go on and on and on but I’ve tried to narrow this down to the best way I could—especially if you are a first-timer to the beautiful City of Lights.

Remember. Please don’t be intimidated. What you see on Social Media for the most part doesn’t give a realistic view—much of it is smoke and mirrors.  Paris is a gorgeous city filled with something for every budget.  Granted it isn’t cheap but it can be affordable if you do your homework and plan!

For more Paris reading, here are a few archived blog posts:  Paris in Three Days Part One (Parts two and three can be reached from the first installment)  Paris Without Daniele Part Un

Some Best Buys

Paris In Four Days__Part One

That is it and I hope you enjoyed this!  I also hope I didn’t come off as preachy because I can’t stand that.  These are merely suggestions.  Hey!  No matter where you travel, have a great time, study the locals and be yourself!

One last thing. Check out the many book stores!  Taschen has great “coffee table” books. We purchased this for ten euros and it’s a lovely reminder of Paris!

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