Thanksgiving in Paris Part Three: On Saturday We Hang Out at Napoleon’s Place. On Sunday–We Don’t Rest!

*Note—this post was started before Christmas.  And then the kids arrived. Needless to say, I’m terribly sorry that I have not been answering comments.  I wasn’t being rude it was just that there was a lot going on.  Please accept my apologies!

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Seriously. I really am.  I feel horrible because I love “talking” with you guys!  Please accept my apologies!

What do you do on a Saturday in Paris when you have a car?  You drive to Fontainebleau, the Chateau that was originally Francis Premiere’s place and later Napoleon Bonaparte’s hangout.  But first we enjoyed a hearty breakfast at the hotel!

Where Bonaparte eats only multiple croissants, I try to keep it healthy with whole wheat toast and eggs.  PS. That healthy thing went out the window as soon as Christmas week arrived.  I’m now suffering the effects of too much sugar, fat, booze and carbs!

We walked up to Place Dauphine to get the car from the garage, headed to the hotel where Bonaparte’s friends were staying to pick them up, then headed about an hour outside of Paris for a day of hanging at Fontainebleau.

Fontainebleau.  Such a quaint little place that warms my heart!

Once again, the drive was pleasant.  The weather was cloudy with rain early one changing to…just cloudy.  Allow me to say that I’m one of those individuals who prefer Fontainebleau to Versailles.

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I didn’t take this photo but I do have them of Versailles somewhere.  It’s gorgeous. I won’t argue that but I just like Fontainebleau better.  What can I say?

Yes. I said it and I mean it.  Don’t get me wrong.  Versailles is an incredible masterpiece of an estate and it was the best series ever.  But it’s just massive and that means massive crowds.  The summer crowds are impossible to bear and the winter is less crowded, but overall, I like Fontainebleau because it’s just a more comfortable and intimate dwelling.  And when I say intimate, I don’t necessarily mean it’s a small, confining place—it’s a friggin’ castle for cryin’ out loud.  But there’s something homier about it.

And the parking during these winter months is more readily available.

Last time we visited this chateau, part was sectioned off for restoration.  A different part is sectioned off now.

This was sectioned off last time we visited. I dunno. It’s pretty void of humanity so perhaps it still is sectioned off.  Can you imagine this being your little courtyard?  I can.

Come along on a little tour with me.

Every Catholic’s dream–to have a church in your home so you don’t have to drive to Sunday or Saturday night Mass!  It’s in your house!!

Napoleon’s throne.  Allow me to say that MY Bonaparte has a different throne!

So much better than those cheesy popcorn textured ceilings

No gas powered fireplace for this place!

The French version of a knick-knack..

and then some..

I could definitely use this master bed. How about you?

Can you imagine dining al fresco out here in the summer?  Or aperitifs?

The nursery.  The. Nursery.  It’s better than any bedroom I’ve ever had!

One of many parlors

Stained glass window.  I thought this might be St. Thomas More but he wasn’t French.

 

As a mother, this would have been so welcomed when my kids were younger because I would get great exercise running after them down this hall!

The Emperor of the Manor. I do believe he had plenty of renovations to do. After all, the original owner was Francois Premier!

Afterwards, we stopped at a quaint family-run café for a bite to eat before heading back.  The place was no-nonsense and the food decent.  It felt like being in someone’s home.  And the food was excellent!

Le Magenta, this family-run cafe was so ridiculously warm, inviting and no-frills great!

My lunch? Eggs with Mayo.  Simple and delicious and the hard cooked eggs were perfect as was the home-made mayo!

But before making our way back to the City Centre, Bonaparte decided upon riding by the home his mom and stepdad owned. It was their weekend home away from Paris and they loved it and spent as much time there when time allowed.

Across from the family abode.

Yes. When my husband was young and not hanging out in cafe’s drinking wine or coffee and smoking cigarettes,  and not at Daniele’s, he could be found here.  Did I mention I could be found in my parent’s basement?

His stepdad, Jean Casadesus, was a concert pianist and died in a car accident.  Thus, he is eternalized in this memorial plaque outside the family dwelling.

As usual because the French are so insistent on having huge fences around their property so nosy tourists like me can’t get a photo, I couldn’t get one of the house.  However, here is the plaque outside the family compound.

Back in Paris before it got dark, we still had time to park the car, walk around and rest before dinner.

Again, we dined at La Procope and again, we had a wonderful meal.

Another dinner at Le Procope. Hey. Saturday night is MOBBED at this place. If you are going to be in Paris and want to have dinner here, reservations are a must. If you don’t make them you will wait.  A long time!  We made our reservations quite in advance!

I started off with ravoli in a cream sauce…

And for my main plate, I had kidneys.  I could have had a second portion too!

After dinner, we did a thing.  We stopped by a little creperie on Rue St. Andres des Arts.  We stopped here the first time I came to Paris 15 years ago and revisited.  It’s not fancy. It’s not spectacular. It’s just a cute little creperie that’s been there for years.

There’s always room for crepes…

…especially ones with chocolate and almonds.  I spare no calories.

A walk back to the hotel took just a few minutes and after a busy day, it was lights out and a deep slumber!

OK. So wait. Take a good look at the line in this pic.  Kodawari Ramen on Rue Mazarine was packed every night.  This was on Saturday evening.  You would not believe how long the line stretches.  This must be some good shit but I’m not waiting on any line this long for food!

Sunday and Beyond

On Sunday morning, we went back to Cafe de Paris for another enjoyable breakfast.  Much to the sharp eyes of the Frenchman, he noticed that a bowlful of Senequier nougat was in the back of the cafe and inquired with the server.  Lo and behold Senequier owns Cafe de Paris and sells the sweets in the cafe.  Guess what we went home with?

Another visit to Cafe de Paris..

You can enjoy this lovely nougat in the cafe but we opted to take it with us.

A pile of croissants in the bar area. This is one of my favorite photos from our visit–sometimes my iPhone does a good job!

We attended Mass at St. Severin.  Truth be told. This is my favorite church in Paris for Mass. I love the scent of it and its old and I’ve been going here for many years when I visit.  I found out that Bonaparte made his First Communion here—that’s how old the church is!  Just kidding—but he did make his FC here.

It seems that every church in Paris is undergoing some sort of repair or renovation at this time. I’m wondering if it has anything to do with what happened to Notre Dame?

I really do feel a sense of comfort whenever I go to Mass here.  The church happened to be filled with young families which was very nice to see.

It was off for more walking and we drove to Montparnasse to return the rented car.  That’s the weird thing about Paris. It’s definitely more convenient to rent automobiles in the USA—only because of the location thing.  We had to seemingly drive forever to a deserted place in the bowels of Montparnasse to return the car.  It was no big deal for my husband but he did mention that it wasn’t a great thing for someone not familiar with the City.

We hailed a cab rather easily and made our way to the cemetary at Montparnasse to visit Daniele, Yves and Zazi, Bonaparte’s cousin.  It isn’t a visit to Paris until we see Daniele and I still miss her terribly.

Daniele and her husband Yves are buried together.  The buttons?  An homage to Yve’s 1962 film “la guerre des boutons” (the war of the buttons), which is now a classic.

After that, we headed over to Le Bon Marche—a more “upscale” department store.  Seriously. The store is beautifully curated and the displays are perfection but the affordability of the majority of products sold are out of my reach.  Regardless, we picked up Christmas cards. And across the street are the store’s gourmet and home departments.  Both spectacular.  It makes me wonder what French tourists to America think of our willy-nilly displays.

Bon Marche is a very upscale store but walking through is a delight!

The window decorations at Bon Marche were a step above Galeries Lafayette this year!

What is it with Christmas trees being hung from the ceilings of Parisian Department stores?  It’s nice isn’t it?

A display of candles–yes. these are candles at the home department of Bon Marche!

That being said, we sauntered over to FNAC to do some browsing and then over to another book store in the “neighborhood”, Taschen, where we picked up a great book for only ten euros!

Seriously.  This book was a steal for ten euros.  The photographs are wonderful!

By this time, it was late afternoon and we rested up a bit before walking to a local bistro for dinner.

We ate our last meal for this trip at Café Bonaparte.  It was somewhat surprising to me about how good this local place was. I also was surprised to find out this was a teen hangout of Bonaparte’s when he was growing up.  He and his friends would convene here to drink coffee and smoke cigarettes.  Very French.  I hung out at the beach destroying my skin.

The night lighting really makes this cafe look warm and inviting and inside–it was in every way!

This was the comfort-food money dish. I will definitely be ordering on our next visit.

One last coffee and..

Tarte Tatin with a scoop of vanilla ice cream ended our last dinner in Paris Thanksgiving 2019!

I have to say, though, that I can’t wait to go back here. I had steak tartare which was excellent but he had sausage and lentils and I’m sorry I didn’t get what he ordered.  Service was wonderful and it was a nice little walk back to the hotel.

And that was it.  Our Thanksgiving trip of 2019!

Still dark at Seven AM…goodbye little sofa in the waiting area.

On Monday morning, we got up early to get to the airport and that’s when I started to become overwhelmed with sadness and a feeling of emptiness.  Both because I knew that my brother’s funeral would be in a couple of days and because I honestly grow sadder with every leave from Paris.  I’m a City girl and always will be but due to the high cost of city living….

Breakfast at CDG Airport and..

Away we go till next time!

Stay tuned because this trip—although over, I’m working on a little post about more tips for Paris travel!

Hope you enjoyed the visuals and let’s get ready for the New Year!

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Thanksgiving in Paris—Part Two! We Got a Car!

Bonaparte surprised me with the announcement that he rented a car for two days.  We would be driving out of Paris both on Friday and Saturday.   He wanted to take a drive out of the City and down memory lane to visit a few places that brought back memories of his youth.

This is NOT the car we rented.  It was a Jeep but I like this one better!

We started the morning out at Café de Paris with…. you guessed it.

Might I suggest if you are in Paris and staying in the 6th, head to Cafe de Paris for the greatest service and croissants and coffee. And if you sit outside, the people watching is stellar!

Coffee and Croissant.  And then he went off to get the car as I walked around and went back to the hotel to wait for his return.

It was still raining but not heavy rain.  It was a perfect day to drive out of the City and into the countryside.

I have to say that I was tempted to jump out of the car and run into CityPharma for a return trip!

Today ‘s schedule was an ambitious one.

This is one of the favorite photographs I took on this trip. We drove by the Eiffel Tower and I couldn’t resist.  

We left Paris early and as we drove out of the arrondissements, I admired the historical beauty of this romantic city.  The drive was pretty darned pleasant.  No manifestations to slow traffic and it was early enough so that the shoppers headed to Castorama and Ikea weren’t yet on the road.

No city can match the beauty of the buildings in Paris. I may be a bit opinionated but I just love the history….

Tout seul on the road and loving it!

We stopped at Saint-Hilarion to visit Bonaparte’s mother, Evie’s, grave.  She’s at rest in a tiny but charming cemetery.  The grounds are well-maintained and slightly unkempt at the same time.  There is a ton of history here.

Evie’s grave.  Although I knew her only after she lost any sense of being lucid, in her own little world, she was a very sweet woman. I wish I had known her before she became ill.

This “cimetiere” wasn’t morose, maudlin or morbid.  It was just charming, touching and beautiful in is natural state.  Check this out!

This old, tattered plastic watering can has been here for years.  Somewhere in the bowels of my photos, I have this same photo taken during the summer a few years back.  Some things never change!

A weathered and rusty cross…

A moss-spotted grave…

My husband in a thoughtful stance.

And, the little chapel that, last time we visited Evie’s grave, was in ruins.  It’s been restored inside and is just so peaceful in its pristine loneliness.

I like to believe that Evie and my brother, Pete, stopped the rain and gave us some decent weather!

The inside of the chapel has been restored. I kinda had to do some “nyc girl manipulation” and jimmy the lock to get this photo.  Rest assured I relocked before my criminal act. And I said an “Act of Contrition” too. All is well!

Next, we drove into town to Maintenon and walked around a bit.  We stopped at Chateau de Maintenon and it looks just as beautiful in the winter as it does in the summer.  The lampposts were decorated so elegantly and sparkly.

The Chateau de Maintenon  is one of the greatest chateaus I’ve ever visited. In the summer, the grounds are absolutely stunning and this time of year, it’s a bit sleepy but still gorgeous.

This church next to the chateau was securely locked. I wouldn’t even attempt my naughty act of trying to gain entrance.  Preparations were being made for a Christmas concert..

Another favorite photo.  Sometimes my SmartPhone takes smart photos.  Look way in the background and you can see the failed Aqueduct that Lous XIV built.  Thousands of lives were lost during the constrution but it is an incredible structure. The object was to bring water to Versailles.

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WTF decorates like this???!!  THE FRENCH DO!!  And it looks magical!

Then it was on to the estate, Le Moulin, also in Saint-Hilarion, where Bonaparte spent so many weekends of his younger days.  A little backstory in case you are new to reading this blog.  Bonaparte’s aunt was the actress Daniele Delorme. She was married to actor and director Yves Robert.  They had an apartment in Paris and this retreat.  I have a townhouse in Phoenixville, PA–LOL!

 

Can you imagine having this property?  The housekeeper’s home is in the background.  I’ll take it. I’ll clean the bathrooms with pleasure if I can stay here!

During the summer, there’s a family of ducks that hang here. I don’t know where they went. Hopefully, they haven’t been turned into someone’s dinner!

This gate leads to more property.  Bonaparte was getting stressed that I would try to break into yet another place because the owner almost caught me at the front gate.  I like to think of myself as a “real life” journalist if you will!

The home was always open to weekend visitors and many a French actor/actress or musician would be a guest.  My husband had wonderful memories of this home.  It’s a gorgeous old estate in the most bucolic setting.  The film “La Guerre des Boutons” was filmed on the property. Luckily for Yves Robert, he didn’t have to commute far to work!

And here it is. The main maison that Bonaparte spent years in.  Take a clue from me, if you want a decent photo of a French estate, do it in the late Fall/early Winter when the leaves leave the trees bare. In the summer everything is hidden by the foilage.  Don’t these people realize I’m downright nosey???

And much to my husband’s relief that I didn’t get arrested for trespassing or breaking and entering!  Back to Paris it is!

On the way back we drove past two town meeting centers—one named in honor of Bonaparte’s uncle and the other named after the character that Bonaparte’s brother, Martin, played in that movie.

I have no idea what these salles are used for.  Weight Watchers meetings perhaps?  I doubt it because the French are skinny.  Maybe groups to stop smoking!

Bonaparte’s brother, Martin’s P’tit Gibus ended up to be an incredibly popular character!  I swear Martin is as adorable now as he was then!

Still early enough to have a large part of the afternoon free, we arrived back in Paris, parked the car and headed to the Ministry of Culture.

Back in Paris. No rain but clouds abound!  We’re on our way to enter the Ministry of Culture to catch the Jacques-Henri Lartigue exhibit!

Presently, there is an exhibit being held that showcases Bonaparte’s grandfather’s photographs.  What a family—huh?   There is a rumor going around about my family that those who may have been naughty Irishmen fled to Australia. That’s why I have relatives there.  We are worlds apart—LOL!!

If you’re in Paris between now and January, stop by!!

So, we went to the exhibit.  For me, it was fun to have a more in-depth look into the world of Jacques-Henri Lartigue because there were quite a good number of his photos that I’ve never seen before.

The start of the exhibit..

“Champs de courses d’Auteuil”  Paris, 1911. This remains my absolute FAVORITE JHL photo.  I would wear any of those outfits today.  What a stunning photo!

This photo was taken in 1969 during an photo shoot for Courreges dresses.  I love this because Andre Courreges is/was my favorite designer of all time and this also looks like an Irish Dance competition photo!!!

Um…. the husband wasn’t very pleased with the way the exhibit was displayed or curated.  And that is all I can say on the subject!

This is where things got weird–according to ME!  There was a fantastic slide show, which I was completely mesmerized by because these were personal photos which gave me more insight to his grandfather.  HOWEVER,  it was presented on a wobbly TV screen?  It would have been so much better if presented on a blank wall in a dark room.  Man was my husband ticked off!

And then we were off again!

We did a bit more walking then hailed a cab back to the hotel.  Something you outta know.  There was a time when it was nearly impossible to get a cab on the street in Paris.  Then Uber happened. And after strikes by the cab companies, and manifestations, it seems that the Uber/Cabbies have learned to tolerate.  It’s now a hella lot easier to get a cab. Thank you, Uber!

Another enjoyable walk before getting a cab. Late afternoon into twilight would soon be happening!

And after a rest at the hotel, we headed out to GET dinner. This time in the form of a walk to Rue de Buci to Carrefour for sandwich makings to have in our room!

Dinner was quiet.  We headed to Carrefour, picked up sandwich makings and finger foods and enjoyed a simple meal in our room.

I’ll tell you all about Saturday in the next installment!!

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Thanksgiving in Paris—The 2019 Edition__Part One

Thanksgiving in Paris is a relatively new tradition that Bonaparte and I embarked upon three years ago.  This little trip gives us just enough time to get mentally prepared for the Christmas holidays and gives us a bit of respite from a holiday that neither of us is particularly crazy about.

And away we go!

Don’t get me wrong.  It isn’t that I despise this holiday, it’s just that it never rang that important.  Growing up with dad who was a NYC Police Officer, there were many Thanksgivings when he had to work.   And when my mother discovered that the turkey and all the trimmings could be catered, the local deli made our feast.  And it tasted weird.

And as a young adult I just never got into it.  When the kids were growing up Thanksgiving meal was rushed because Oona and I had to high-tail it into the Marriott in Philly for the annual Oireachtas, the regional Irish Dance competitions.

The kids are grown and into their careers and their lives.  Jake is working and living in Los Angeleez, Oona is married and living in Cincinnati and Roman is in NYC and works the parade many a Thanksgiving.

And so, Christmas is my thing. That’s the holiday when family gathers together and this year, we’ll be celebrating the Sunday before Christmas.  That’s the way life goes when the kids have work commitments.

But back to our trip.

It was five days.  From Wednesday until the following Monday morning when we returned Stateside.

And here’s how it rolled….

Five days of clothing, underwear, makeup, and hair!  I am not lying when I tell you, I would rather WEAR five days of undies and clothing on my person than to pay $60 to check a suitcase with the airlines!

Five days in Paris.  And I refuse to check luggage because I don’t want my wigs or makeup to suddenly become “lost” at the expense of American Airlines.  I’m also a light packer and went with the essentials.  Black pants, black sweaters, jeans, a couple of tee shirts, underwear, a blazer.  I’m easy.

What I wore on the way over–comfy J. Crew Pixie pants, flat shoes, a black long-sleeved tee, a scarf and Gabor’s High Society wig.  

Whereas Bonaparte decided to check a large suitcase because we would be doing some shopping.  American Airlines charged him $60 for the checked-in luggage. This is what happens when you fly economy.  You get nickeled and dimed.  Friends of ours were on the same flight and in business class, they were not charged.  I can’t stand the Corporate Caste System!

Due to circumstances with my brother’s passing, there was a part of me that just wasn’t “there” when we landed.  It’s to be expected but I made the best of it and was truly happy to be back in The City of Lights.

Quite honestly, I’m more comfortable here than in Philadelphia.

Going through customs took no time. In fact, it was the quickest I can remember in fourteen years of visits!  The Frenchman’s luggage collected, we headed out into…………………. rain!  And more rain.

And we got into the cab at just the right time because there was a manifestation about to occur.  The farm workers were annoyed and were holding a tractor brigade along the highway leading from the airport into Paris.  Luck was on our side.

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That’s right folks, we just missed the start of yet, another manifestation.  It makes me feel so warm and fuzzy inside!

We arrived at the Prince de Conti hotel, dropped our luggage off until check-in, and hit the streets of the Sixth Arrondissement.

The weather ensured that many small streets would be empty.  It was kind of nice!

First stop was Café Buci for some good coffee and croissants.  And after getting fueled up, we hit my favorite stop, CityPharma where I picked up a few skincare items.

Just what was needed after a flight through the night.  Good coffee and croissants.  Weight Watchers be damned. I’m eating right now!

Morning fuel!

This time around I didn’t get too much at CityPharma.  Just a few small items..

But I DID stop at Carrefour to pick up Banana juice. I can’t find it here in the States but each visit to France has me happy as a fly on $hit because I drink this stuff  like a madman!

More walking around looking at sites and before you knew it, we were ready to check into the hotel.

This cafe is on Rue de Buci and I love the way the awning is decorated.  Very similar to last year!

Never allow a bit of rain to put a damper on your travel plans. Either the weather is going to be good–or it isn’t. Regardless, you’ll still have a blast!

Dinner was at Le Procope, an old cafe/bistro filled with history, we had dinner in the Chopin room.  On a Wednesday evening, the place had a good crowd. The food didn’t fail to please either.

Le Procope was a hangout for the intellectual crowd at one time.  Now..it’s just a darn good place to eat!

I’m telling you, wearing a wig is the greatest asset for travel!  You change your hair the way you change your shoes!  We’re enjoying our first dinner in the Chopin room!  That guy–huh??

Bonaparte started off with escargots while I enjoyed…

Foie gras and jam on toast.

And he also enjoyed steak with a nice Bearnaise sauce.  I was so busy chowing down on my duck that I never took a photo!

Our server was so upset that the fries weren’t hot enough for HIS pleasure that he brought out another serving.

The rain stopped and we enjoyed a nice stroll back to the hotel under festive street lighting!

And that was our first day!

We started our first day on Buci and ended it on Buci!

Thursday, Thanksgiving, 2019

Rise and shine.  To more rain.  Actually, the rain isn’t bad. I enjoy rain when I’m in a large city.  When I lived in Manhattan, I welcomed a rainy day and the same holds true for Paris.  The buildings lend themselves well to the gray sky.  The rain isn’t as heavy as it is here in the States. It’s a lighter, more refined form of precipitation!

We started the day off by running a few errands.  I hit Fragonard because a refill of my Santal scent was in order and we walked to Repetto to get me a new pair of ballet flats.  We walked and walked and let me tell you, it was such a welcome change.

This scent.  My new favorite as of last year.  Santal is actually a unisex scent.  It’s definitely got some masculine vibes but I like that in a winter scent.  It’s sandalwood with a hint of pepper. I love it!

I picked up a little decoration for the tree too!  

I bought Navy ballet flats and I can’t wait to finally wear them!

I stopped into St. Sulpice to light a candle for my brother and one for a wig sister and another for my sister-in-law.  In addition, rosaries were purchased.  There’s something very soothing about sitting and reflecting in a church and the musty scent of St. Sulpice gives hints of the layers of history that took place in this house of worship.

This is not St. Sulpice. It’s Eglise St. Germain.  I stopped in there too.  It’s an obsession. I love going to church in Paris.

I was also obsessed with this sculpture!

And once again we were off.  We played a visit to Bonaparte’s cousin, Hugo at his office and did more rummaging around.

Bonaparte’s cousin Hugo — always a pleasure to stop by the office to say hello!

At this point the rain subsided but it was still gray.  Which, I might add, makes it great for walking around.  And since it was our Non-Thanksgiving, Thanksgiving, we decided to take in the decorative windows at Galeries Lafayette on Boulevard Haussmann.  This year’s decorations were great. The theme was bees.  And I tried my best to get good photos but those little French kids were in my way!

The Galeries Lafayette Christmas tree is quite floral this year. Must be because of the bee theme!

I’m always fascinated by the domed roof!

I did a thing.  I bought a coat.  And the coat was just the kind I was looking for.  Straight and camel toned.  The price was right because on this day, the stores were having pre-Black Friday sales.  Yes.  Black Friday is now a “thing” in France—at least in Paris it is.

Yes. I bought a coat. Good thing too. It was getting cold!  Check out the husband’s expression!  Honesty, I LOVE this coat so much!

I’m sticking this random photo of Christmas cheeses because I didn’t eat any cheese whilst in Paris. I’m a bit shocked at myself but I just didn’t!

More walking around, more errands and back to the hotel for a little rest before dinner.

A quick change of clothing and hair and we are off for our Thanksgiving dinner!

Thanksgiving Dinner was no disappointment.  We dined at our favorite local haunt—Restaurant Paul on Place Dauphine.  As usual, the husband didn’t stray too far from beef.  I went in a different direction.  I started out with Bone Marrow and went with Tete de Veau, Veal head and brains with sweetbreads on the side.  Why not?  It was different than Turkey and I figured if I ate brains, then perhaps I would become a bit more intelligent.

We started with Kirs

and some olives…

I tell you, the husband does not stray far from his usual selections.  Escargot. Again.

I started off with bone marrow…

And like a rabid dog gnawing on a bone. I ate every last morsel!

Some wine if you will..

Beef for the husband…

Veal head complete with brains AND crispy sweetbreads surrounded by carrots and parsnips!  YUM!  

Um…that didn’t happen.  How was my meal?  The bone marrow was great.  The other?  It wasn’t bad but it wasn’t great, the texture wasn’t as solid as I thought it would be.  I’m glad I tried it though.

To end this feast, Paris Brest!  

A nice picturesque stroll back to the hotel ended our Thanksgiving and it was off to slumber for the next day, we had a car and would drive out of Paris…

Now and Seine you need a stroll after dinner!

Stay tuned for Part Two!

See you tomorrow!

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Thank You For Your Condolences, Prayers and Comforting Thoughts

The past few weeks have been difficult and I’ve been on a hiatus from basically everything.  But at some point, the pieces need to be gathered and put back together with spiritual glue and that’s what I’m doing.

I want to thank you all for your condolences and I’m overwhelmed at the lovely emails and messages received.  They meant the world to me.  And I’m grateful and appreciative.

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Thank you so much. You’ve definitely lifted my spirits!

There’s a lot to do in order to get ready for Christmas and I’m getting back to the blog, Instagram and YouTube.

In the meantime, I wanted to share a little slideshow about my brother that my niece, Mary, created. It’s absolutely beautiful and showcases the wonderful life my brother had.  It’s a wonderful tribute to him and I do hope you enjoy!

All my love,  Cathe

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The Loss of a Sibling

I honestly do not know where to begin with this post.  Rather, I’ll tell you there’s a reason that I haven’t been posting over the past week.

My baby brother passed away.

My baby brother.  Peter Michael Wynne. And yes, the entire family, cousins, siblings, aunts and uncles always referred to him as “The Baby”.  Maybe it’s an Irish thing….

It’s as simple as that.  He is gone.  I will never see him again and I’ll never speak to him again.  We will never butt heads over politics.  We will never see him at family weddings nor will we ever hear from him during the Holidays.

This is my favorite photo of us.  It was taken back in 1991 at Tice’s Farm in New Jersey. He was visiting us before Halloween.  See his hand on my shoulder?  I love that little nuance.

He has ceased to exist and I am sad, and angry AF and broken.

My brother, Pete and his wife’s family were enjoying a mini-vacation in Vegas. He felt ill. Nausea.  And went to an urgent care center.  He passed out. Cardiac Arrest.  Same as my dad.

And that was it.

I am so grateful that we got to spend time together during Oona’s wedding week.  Here’s Roman with Pete at the Red’s game. It was fun sitting behind him because he kept feeding me!

At 51 years young, this shouldn’t have happened.  He loved life too much.  He was one of the kindest and generous men on earth.

One of his favorite life moments–being on the field at Notre Dame after a football win.  This photo says it all.  He loved life!

Here is his obituary. It is beautifully written and describes him perfectly.

Wynne, Peter Michael of San Antonio, Texas formerly of Port Richey, Florida died suddenly on November 15, 2019 at the age of 51. Pete was preceded in death by his father and mother, Thomas and Germaine Wynne and Father-in-Law, Raul Torres. Beloved husband of Yanela Wynne. Loving father of Jasmine (fiancé Sam Kazarian) and Isis Wynne. Adored son-in-law of Aida Torres. Cherished brother and brother in law of Cathy Latrigue (Vincent), Theresa Cseh, Thomas Wynne (Beth), Germaine Baker (Charles), Raul (Monique), Ruben, Rene (Carmen) Torres. Pete was uncle to 15 nieces and nephews and great uncle to 5 nieces and 2 nephews. Pete was a Faithful man of God as a Fourth Degree Knight.

Pete was with the United States Air Force for 29 years. He retired in 2009 after 21 years of service. He was proud to have served in both the United States Air Force Presidential Honor Guard and Security Forces. During his active duty he spent time at Bolling AFB, D.C, from 1988-1992 as an Honor Guard member; performed military ceremonies and provided presidential security. He was at Osan AB, South Korea from 1992-1995 as Law Enforcement patrolman and town patrol. He was stationed in Minot AFB, North Dakota from 2001-2003 as a Security Forces Flight Chief and he finished his active duty career at Lackland AFB as a Security Forces 7 Level, Combat Arms and Advanced Officer Instructor in the 342nd Training Squadron in 2009. After retirement he went back to school and finished his Master’s degree while staying home with his beautiful newborn baby girl, Isis. In 2013 after completing his Masters and perfecting parenthood, he returned to Lackland AFB in the 802 Security Forces Squadron as a Civilian DAF Police Supervisor. In 2015 he was promoted to Assistant Operations Officer, the title he held until his recent passing.

Pete’s love for his country came first, Notre Dame Football was second until he met his wife Yanela in late 2006. In May of 2008 they married and he was able to spend the rest of his beautiful life with her and their two beautiful daughters Jasmine and Isis. He was not only an exceptional Airman; he was a dedicated, loving and devoted husband, father, brother and friend. He lit up so many people’s lives. He was a happy and selfless man, a true angel on Earth. An outpouring of love and kind words have been shared since his passing, a true testament on what a wonderful soul he was. He leaves this world with a lot of broken hearts, but his memory will continue to live in everyone.

Pete will be missed tremendously by his family, friends and his faithful pets.

The family will receive friends for visitation from 10:30 AM to 12:00 PM at St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Catholic Church on Thursday, December 5, 2019.

What makes matters even sadder is that his body had to stay in Vegas for a week until it was released to fly home to San Antonio.  And due to the Thanksgiving travel, his funeral service is delayed until December 5.  I cannot imagine the heartbreak of my Sister-in-law and my nieces.

With Roman..you can see how happy he is to be with Uncle Pete…

Jake with a very young “Uncle Pete” on one of our visits to Florida.  

…and with Oona.  My God, he was the favorite uncle of all my kids and they won’t have him anymore..

It’s difficult to function right now.  The Frenchman and I leave for Paris on Tuesday.  I haven’t even packed yet.  And if you read this blog on a regular basis, you know that I pack weeks in advance!  And the day after we return, I will be getting on a plane to head to Pete’s service.

He loved and served his country so very much. A perfect example of a PATRIOTIC and TRUE American.  He was an enlisted man!

Everyone has their personal coping mechanisms.  For me, I’m ok one minute and the next, I start to just cry.  It’s so random.  To make things a bit festive, I started decorating the bannisters for Christmas.   It wasn’t a happy moment.

A man of  deep Catholic faith, I remember how proud he was when Jake asked him to be his sponsor for Confirmation.

He was my brother Tom’s, Best Man.  Actually, Pete was best man to everyone!

The photo is a bit fuzzy, but this was taken at Disney World when he was just a kid!

I just want my brother back.  I can hear his voice.  I can visualize his animation when he gets excited.  And nothing will bring him back.

Back in his “single” days, he was often at our home for Christmas.  This is one of Oona’s favorite photos.  She’s so tired and out of it but Pete was there to carry her down the stairs to Santa’s gifts!

You got siblings?  Give them a random call if you haven’t seen them in a while.  Are you on the outs?  Fuck it.  Put the outs to the side and reach out.  My siblings and I don’t agree politically.  I’m the Independent of the family and it’s put a dent in our relationships.  With my brother’s passing, politics no longer matter.  It’s family that does.

My cubicle at work.  I just want Pete next to me!

There’s not much more to say in the post because I certainly don’t want to come across as morose and a downer.  I’m taking a little break for a week or so until this pass.

I love you baby brother!

And then I’ll be back with my sense of humor.

Love and Happy Thanksgiving to all.

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T’was Beginning to Look a Lot Like Christmas—A Month Ago!

Our Holiday Calendar has gone askew.  Some time before Halloween, we took a trip to Costco and the Christmas Decorations were in full force.

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Nothing like seeing THIS before Halloween!

The “Holiday” décor was of better consumer placement than the Halloween candy and costumes were.  It was quite disturbing for me.

And it brought memories of a childhood back to mind.

Halloween was that stretch of time where you thought about your “store bought” costume with the plastic mask that made you sweat and for some other reason gave you the gift of a constant drool.  I’m thinking swallowing your saliva kept you hydrated as you roamed the neighborhood for hours in search of the house with the “good” candy.

I love the realistic “Baby Jane” application of the lipstick on this mask. I had this very one and can attest that there was a ton of sweat and drool within an hour of wearing this.

Then there was the delight of trading candy with siblings and friends and all those great autumn activities such as jumping into piles of raked leaves and closing your eyes to enjoy the wafting scent of burning leaves.

And the actual “smock” costume that you could wear OVER your outwear just made Halloween’s Trick or Treating experience epic!

Immediately following the Hallowed Eve, the planning for Thanksgiving began.

And no matter how many times, mine eyes have seen the glory of Norman Rockwell’s “Freedom from Want”,  my personal Thanksgivings have been more like “Wishful Freedom from Stress”

Now, my mother was into total convenience and having five children to take care of didn’t help matters. She always had our Thanksgiving dinner “catered” by the deli up the street— “Bernie’s”.  Bernie was our Thanksgiving chef.  And to this day, I cannot stand turkey.  For some reason, Bernie’s turkey had a horrific aftertaste. It didn’t taste homemade to me.

My mother opted for a catered-from-Bernie’s-deli Thanksgiving feast that looked NOTHING like this.  It was all served in plastic containers.

Regardless, Thanksgiving was still a time for a great family meal.  Except for those years when my dad had to report to the New York City Police Department as he worked on a rotating schedule.

But..the greatest thing about Thanksgiving was watching the parade.  The spectacular floats.  The marching bands.  The celebrity hosts. And most of all, at the end of the parade, the arrival of the man—Santa Claus!

There were some great memories on the Upper West Side of NYC watching the Thanksgiving parade and standing outside in the cold freezing our asses off!

From Spiderman (and I must say that I’m impressed with my photographic talent, it was my Nikkormat camera and not a phone)…..

….to Ronald McDonald, we had a blast!

The official commencement of The Christmas Season was the arrival of Santa, sitting in his sleigh being wheeled through New York City streets, waving to the children both standing in the frigid cold and in the comfort of their toasty homes.

Now THIS was the start of Christmas Season!

The Santa.  Last float of the Thanksgiving Parade. The official start of  the Christmas season.  I love old school…

Prior to his arrival, there were no Hallmark Christmas movies—especially in July.

Oops! I doth believe that the only Homegrown Christmas Lori Loughlin might be celebrating this year will be the one in the Big House!

There were no decorations or lights showcased from the neighbors’ homes and lawns.

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Seriously folks, I would love to live next to this house.  

The retail establishments kept the goods in the stock rooms until the arrival of the bearded man in the red suit!

It was an event!

Things have changed for sure!

My oldest son Jake with Wall Street Santa in 1984.  I was working at the now-defunct Morgan Guaranty Trust company–I loved my job and I loved the perks.  Each year the company held a Christmas party for the children of employees. It was incredible.  Look at the way Jake is admiring Santa!

Although we celebrate Christmas on the 25th, we now lead up to that date so far in advance.

Christmas 1989.  Roman still talks about this Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle mask to this day. Ahhhh the simple gifts that Santa brings…

Oona with her favorite doll she named  Oats.  And I still have Oats packed away!  I’m in a state of shock that my horrible mothering lack of skills allowed my daughter to eat chocolate so early on Christmas morning and I never even bothered to wipe her face!

December 25th, best day of the year and within hours it’s gone….

As Bonaparte and I were driving through downtown Phoenixville last Tuesday evening to my WW studio session (don’t judge—I can’t drive at night due to my lack of vision), I noticed an unusual sight.  Christmas wreaths were hung from the downtown lampposts.  It was both equal parts horrifying and delightful.

Horrifying because it was barely a week after Halloween and delighted because I’m looking forward to all things Christmas.

Not gonna lie. I’ve been listening to Christmas music in the car.  That Vince Guaraldi—right??

Bonaparte is quite concerned that I’m listening to this so far ahead of the start of the Season!

Friday morning before work, I stopped at Walmart because I wanted a bag of carrots to munch on. I ended up with a couple of Christmas decorations for the house.

Yes. I did.  And I’m not ashamed either!

So, what’s my train of thought on this rush for the most wonderful time of the year?

I’m embracing it.  Fully.   And hoping that man and womankind put aside feelings of hatred toward others and for at least a month start to behave in a more respectful manner.  I want values to be exercised.

Come along with me as I show you a bit of the Christmas cheer in downtown Phoenixville.

Come on. Hop in my car and take a drive to downtown Phoenixville, PA!  

The wreaths are all placed atop the lamp posts!  What’s this?  We could DONATE a wreath????  Why did I not know this?  Atypica60 would LOVE to donate a wreath and to see her name displayed!!

The Pub in Phoenixville is in full-tilt Santa Boogie!

 

He just asked me what I wanted!  I told him a winning Powerball ticket!

Frosty is inching his way into the scene…

This is making me so utterly happy and warm and fuzzy inside!

The greens have been hung…

And the lights are up. Oh lordy, I’m so excited that I need a Depends!

I love downtown Phoenixville!

And a Very Merry to you!

Hope you enjoyed the pre-season fun!!!  

And I did manage to get a little bit of the holidays into the house!

The little plaid tree. It’s so cute!

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All I Wanted To Do Was Watch “The Righteous Gemstones”. Is That Too Much to Ask???

It’s been a tough week at work. There’s a monthly project that I’ve taken on, and in all honesty—it’s the cause of frustration and stress.  Nonetheless it has to be done.

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My eyes.  They burn. They hurt. I’m seeing triple!  I’m so stressed!

And that’s what happened this past Thursday.  And it rained.  No!  It freaking poured.  Add to the rain, thanks to daylight saving time, the sky was dark when I left the office and my commute home was treacherous.

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Add rain, darkness and glare to this mess. And me driving one mile an hour!  But at least I had the Christmas music on!

I don’t even want to think about what those who were driving behind me were thinking because when driving around the bends and curves, I must’ve been going five miles an hour.  Then there’s the glare from oncoming traffic (I have non-glare glasses.  There’s still glare).  And the bozos who drive at twilight with their damned brights on.

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Yeah. This is me all bent out of shape because oncoming traffic lighting is too bright!

Suffice it to say, when I arrived home, I broke down in tears.  Night driving is very challenging for me due to my horrific eyesight and I cannot change my work hours.

Let’s just say I wasn’t in the best of moods.  And leave it at that.

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It’s kind of a bitchy story…..

And so, I was too spent to sit downand write a blog post.  I was too stressed to do much of anything.

All I wanted to do after dinner was to relax and watch a TV Show.  A particular TV Show.

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Ok. So I don’t have a reclining chair. But I did want to chill and watch TV!

I just wanted to watch “The Righteous Gemstones”!

After a taxing day and a horrific drive home, I can relax and have a good laugh by watching this show!

Earlier in the week, my daughter, Oona, called me to extol the greatness of this HBO series.

She said it was the funniest show ever and that Bonaparte would love it because it broaches the subject of religion.  Now understand.  Both of us were born Roman Catholic.  I’m still very-much into my Catholic roots.  Bonaparte is not.

As a Catholic, I’m not particularly fond of priests but the nuns…I love these women.  Two of my aunts were nuns and The Sisters of Mercy taught me.  I honestly love the nuns!

However, we  are not fans of the religious extremists.  Evangelicals top that list.  Anyway, the description from HBO’s site is below:

You had me at John Goodman!

This comedy series tells the story of a world-famous televangelist family with a long tradition of deviance, greed and charitable work. John Goodman, Danny McBride, Edi Patterson, Adam Devine, Cassidy Freeman, Tony Cavalero, Tim Baltz and Greg Alan Williams star. 

And the sons!  Adam Devine from Pitch Perfect!!

The Father, The Sons, and the Holy Spirit!  I’m blessing myself already!

This show is right up my comedic alley. And considering all the political garbage that I’m subjected to every night –a leader with no moral compass, I welcome a show that’ll make me laugh.

And music about the evils of Satan are included!  I’m shook!

And as we settled upstairs in our comfy bed, me in my toasty pajamas nestled between Bonaparte and Chippy, I anticipated an evening of fun and laughs.

I was already smiling–but it was to be premature…

That did not happen.

What ensued, however, was an hour-and-a half of frustration, anger, cursing and threats to Verizon Fios and HBO!

That’s correct. My happiness quickly evolved into distorted frustration..

Remotes, yes, the plural. Remotes in hand, we headed to “On Demand.”  First off, the Verizon Fios On Demand is challenging and a great pain-in-the-ass.  The process to even get to the show you want takes at the least, fifteen minutes. And that’s when you know what you want!

And these are just the master bedroom remotes. There’s more downstairs and on the ground level of our home!

You have to press the “On Demand” button on the remote. And then you have to wait for On Demand to load.

On Demand. It should be renamed “On Anti-anxiety Meds”!

Then once there, you must choose a particular category. Sounds easy—right?  Wrong because the friggin’ remote either jumps categories or a window for movies automatically pops up that you can exit out of.

Really?  Trying to watch your damned TV show is giving ME anxiety flashes!

So, after about ten minutes, we reached the “Premium” channel category and started to peruse through the never-ending sea of offerings of the Home Box Office.  When we finally found The Righteous Gemstones, all frustration was gone because, by now, both of us were eager to watch the first episode.

Thank you Jesus. I was finally going to see The Righteous Gemstones.  Or was I?

And then the frustration really began to hit us.  The series just ended it’s first season (it has been renewed for a second).  With that, you would think this series would be readily available for viewing.  Well……it is but you have to pay! 

So wait.  We gotta PAY to watch this?  We already DO pay…

Yeah.  PAY!  We already pay over $100 a month for Verizon Fios and for HBO.  And we’re supposed to pay extra to view this series?  From a premium channel that we pay for from a provider we pay for?

Lots of naughty language from both of us.  Me, cursing in English, and Bonaparte saying very naughty words in French came next.

Actions speak louder than words so I flip to bird to both Verizon Fios AND HBO.  Actually I got loud too!

A few moments later Bonaparte’s eyes lit up.  He reached for yet another remote. This time it was the Roku remote.  I don’t even want to think about what he paid for the Roku service but he went through a series of clicks and another screen popped up.

WTF?  Where’s HBO?  Where’s HBO NOW and HBO GO!  Gone to hell I suppose!

This time with “HBO NOW”.   It occurred to me that we probably received HBO NOW with our monthly subscription.  We did not.  We tried entering passwords and usernames to no avail.

Truth. I want my HBO NOW!!!

Then I realized we must have HBO GO; a service provided to HBO Subscribers.

The problem lies therein that we couldn’t reach anyone from HBO or Verizon to help us. The wait was over a half hour.

It was at this time, I nearly ended up in a straight jacket.  After a taxing day, all I wanted to do was watch a damned TV show to make me happy. I wanted to smile. I wanted belly laughs.  I wanted entertainment.

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All I wanted was to be comfy in my pj’s, watch a TV show and have a happy laugh!

Instead I went to sleep exhausted from anger and frustration.  My hysteria fatigued me.  Where my husband is the calm one, I’m the crazy person. And trust me, I went to sleep a madwoman!

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Yes. I’m the crazy lady. Thank you Verizon and HBO for my insanity!

And that’s what frustrates me.  Everything these days has a price.  Subscribing to a cable provider isn’t enough.  You need the premium channels.  Subscribing to a premium channel isn’t enough. You need to pay more if you want to watch a newer show.

It’s all about the Benjamins.  Mo’ money. A Cable subscription isn’t enough. A premium channel isn’t enough. They want more and I bring home less.

Network TV sucks.  Comedies are contrived and way too politically correct for my taste. If you want something along the lines of Norman Lear, you need cable. Network TV is for those who are easily offended.

Maude. Where are you?  Network TV needs you back.  God’ll get you for that!  Oh how I miss great network TV!

A simple evening at home is no longer simple if you want to watch TV.  I’m better off reading a book.

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Perhaps I need to read The Count of Monte Cristo again. After all, it was entertaining and juicy and full of revenge!

Is it these times we live in?  Technology, as great as it is, can be daunting and frustrating and cause for high blood pressure. Even the simplest of things, like setting a clock in your car can be difficult. It isn’t just TV.  One of my sisters sent me this video the other day.  I’ll tell you, no matter how many times, Bonaparte and I watch this, we bowl over from laughing so hard.

It’s so stinking funny and rings so true at the same time.  Here it is for your entertainment. And if you are easily offended by naughty language please do NOT watch this.  He drops the “f” bomb so if you are offended, this isn’t for you.  I’m giving you fair warning.  If you can relate to the frustrations of remotes, electronics, digital items and so on, you will be laughing at this guy and at yourself.  Here goes!

As I said before.  I’m better off reading a book. A novel if you will and not a manual!

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Let the Skincare Begin and A Peek at My Bio Hair!

Summer is over. And I’ll tell you, I get very lazy with the skincare regime in the summer.  I’m outdoors more. In the sun.  The sunscreen goes on. It’s hot, I sweat—or rather, glisten.  And my skin just stays more hydrated in the summer.

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Hey!  Excuse Me.  But I don’t sweat. I GLISTEN!!!

Now it’s fall. And as we head into mid-to-late fall, the skincare routine must resume.

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Oh yes. OH YES!  Bring on the skincare routine!

In my laziness, the only moisturizer I use is CeraVe and I pick it up for an inexpensive price at Walmart, slather it on my face, allowing it to sink into the wrinkles and that’s about it.

I apply this stuff like frosting on a cake. I”m not kidding.  I use a ton of this!

But I’ve noticed that my skin is now drier in spots and it gets kind of red and a bit itchy.

What’s a mature woman to do?

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A mature lady has to do more than apply lipstick. And that means serious skincare!

I’ll tell you what I’m going to do for the next 30 days!  I’m going to be testing a product!  That’s right.  I received a complimentary, full-size jar of L’Oréal Paris Age Perfect Cell Renewal Rosy Tone Moisturizer.

That’s right!  I’ll be testing L’Oreall’s Age Perfect Rosy Tone Moisturizer. If Helen Mirren says it’s okay then it may be a great friend to mature skin. We’ll see…

Influenster sent this to me to try out for a month, and at month’s end, I’ll be reviewing this cream.  I’ll report how it worked, if it worked and generally, if it is worth the money.  It retails for $24.99 on the L’Oréal site but I’ve seen it as low as $14.89 at Target for 1.7 oz.

I was so excited to receive this VoxBox from Influenster. I take my reviews seriously and am eager to report on this!

It’s fair to say the price point is average for a moisturizer—especially with the ever-escalating price of drugstore brands.  Other brands are far more expensive.

What I find respectable is that L’Oreal never uses the term “anti-aging” on this.  It’s such a great thing!

I’ll be using this every day in the morning and evening.  My biggest challenge will be to not use a ton of it.  I’m very heavy-handed.

Here’s the moisturizer. It’s got a rosy tint and such a subtle fragrance that disipates upon application.  I think this will be a decent product!

My other skin-care products will be put on the back burner for the next month so I can truly concentrate on the way this affects my skin!

My Nuxe serum and Ordinary skincare products will be put to rest for a while.  

Please allow me to thank Influenster for sending this to an “over 60” member.  It seems that the products are all so youth-oriented and I’m grateful I’ve been chosen to test this.

My thanks to Infuenster for including my demographic. Thanks so much!

I’ll report back at the end of the month.  Actually, may be the first week in December because we’ll be in Paris the end of the month!

Barefaced and testing. I’m ready to try this and report back to you!

OTOH, I blew my hair out for the first time in over a year today.  The baldness is still there and the wigs are going to continue to be a part of my life but I just wanted to show you how my bio hair looks since I stopped coloring it some seven months ago (maybe eight—who’s counting!)

From the front, you would never guess that I have a hair loss issue.  Oops!  From the back it’s a different story.  Calling Friar Tuck!  Calling Friar Tuck!!

As an aside, I washed in in the shower this morning with Head and Shoulders shampoo. I did NOT use conditioner.  I did not use any products other than the shampoo.  The hair is still coarse and wiry and dry as all get out.

Seriously.  If I had all my hair, I would greatly enjoy going out in public with my “ombre” hair!  I love it! And I chopped it myself!!

I will say though that giving my hair a rest from blow drying, it was much easier to dry.  I posted a pic on Instagram earlier and Oona called me to tell me that she loved the Ombre effect on my hair.  She asked whether or not I could wear a topper.

I blow dried the hair, and whilst I applied my makeup and got dressed, I had it up in clips and rollers.  So old school!

You know, I told her that there are no toppers to match my hair’s texture and that toppers don’t work for everyone.  I much prefer a wig.

And when I got off the phone with her, I started to tear up a bit.  It was because at that moment, I wanted my hair back.  All of it.  My bio hair looked great today.

I have to say, I was really pleased with the way the hair I have left turned out today!

And then I realized the amount of time it used to take to blow dry my hair and how the weather affected it so I went to my wig closet, opened it, and gave a big smile because I’m just so grateful to the wig companies and creators and designers for giving me my confidence back!

And at the end of the day, this sight made me happy because I’m eterally grateful to the people and creators of wigs who have made our lives much easier!  Thank you!

Have a great evening—and evening is coming early today due to Daylight Saving time.  I cannot wait till the days get longer!  How about you?

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Lost Blog Posts, A “WW” Vent, NYC Lunch and Clothes I’m Loving!

Oy Vey!  First of all, I lost a couple of blog posts.  My laptop had “updates” and every effing time there is a Microsoft “update”, something goes awry.

Nooooooo!

Yes!  Every. Stinkin. Update. Ruins my laptop!

This time it was my word docs.  Three of them were lost. Poof! Vanished into thin cyber-air.

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Pretty much like my blog posts!

I felt like a modern-day Little Bo Peep—except instead of sheep, I have blog posts—and they can’t be brought home with their tails behind them. But they can be brought home with their tales behind them and still haven’t!

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Maybe I should run around without panties like Bo Peep and my blog posts will follow me just like these sheep!

Adding to that, I’ve got a “WW” vent.   OK, first the good WW news I lost a pound last week, bringing my weight down to 149 pounds which I’m pleased as punch about.  A new Lifetime membership card arrived in the mail and I’m able to track everything on the app for my phone.

They didn’t even bother to change my last name.  Well at least the numbers are changing!

I’m also obsessed with the WW barcode feature on the app. It allows you to scan a barcode from any food item and will automatically tell you the number of points per serving. It’s as though the WW App is too good to be true.

And it is.  Yesterday, in the early afternoon, I decided to pre-track my dinner, and for some reason the app wouldn’t load.  I kept trying into the late afternoon, even though I was at work.

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My obsession. The WW App and now I can’t even get into it to track what I’m eating!

Nothing. The app died.  I Googled to see if there was an issue with the WW app and there was.  Which annoyed the bejesus out of me because I finally figured out how to master this friggin’ thing and then it dies.   And as of the present time, I need an activation code to get back in along with some other information.

Then I remembered what our “coach” at the “WW Studio” during our “Workshop” said last week.

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Instead of  turning the meetings into studio workshops, perhaps WW should put more money into making their technology more user-friendly!

She said the WW app would be changing because WW is evolving and the program is changing. Again.

You know, this really pissed me off and I’ll tell you why.  It’s the constant changing of the program.  Granted. I realize that change is a good thing.  However, too many changes can have the opposite effect.

Although I cannot remember what the original premise of Weight Watchers was, I know there were no points involved and there was a lot of weighing and counting. My mother followed Weight Watchers religiously. I still fondly remember the old WW “fake” nut recipe by roasting canned mushrooms.  And the baked apples with diet cream soda poured over them before shoving them in the oven.

I’m now in search of the old school recipes like the roasted mushroom “peanuts” and the baked apple with diet soda poured over it!

 Then came the Point system—which is genius.  Then came the Smart Points—as if the regular points were the village idiots.  We had Points Plus too!  And Zero Point foods became a hot commodity.

And then, as presently, came Freestyle.  Where many foods are zero points but the foods with points have a higher point value.  It’s complicated. I know.  But it takes diligence to do well on Freestyle.  For me, the weight is coming off slowly, but at this point, I don’t care.

Who knows what’s in store with the new program that hasn’t been introduced but my thinking isn’t so warm and fuzzy about this.

I happen to like the name “Weight Watchers” it is just what is says it is.  “WW” can mean a plethora of other things such as “Whadya Want” “Where’s Waldo” “World Wrestling” …the list goes on.  You can make a drinking game out of it.

I love the point system.  But I’m intrigued by the original ‘Weight Watchers Program“.  In fact, I may go a step farther and try sleuthing for a copy of the Original Weight Watchers Cookbook that my mother had!

My mother had this book and if I can recall, this is where the original “mashed” cauliflower was created.  There were some very strict guidelines but it was better than the way Weight Watchers keep morphing!

Since I can no longer trust technology, I shall track my food intake in a little journal.  Pen and paper are more reliable than my finger prodding my iPhone.

I’m now manually tracking in a journal..

—and when I ask, because the new WW is stingy, a little pocket tracker.  I can’t trust the app!

But I have been good.

This post has been interrupted by a two-hour phone call from my daughter!

I’m back.

Where was I?  Oh yeah. The “WW” thing.  Anyway, I have been good.  I’m continuing to make better food choices.  I’m certainly not starving myself and I’m doing the best I can.

I’ve yet to try the red lentil pasta from Trader Joe’s but the Roasted Seweed with Sea Salt snacks are delicious and One Point!

I made this shortbread/pastry cream/raspberry tarte for a pot luck luncheon at work last week.  I didn’t even have a piece but heard it was delicious!  It disappeared within five minutes!

One thing I’ve decided to do is to place myself on a clothing “no-buy” for the remainder of the fall/winter seasons.  There’s nothing that I really need.  Besides, for my job, I’m the only one who dresses up anyway.

My outfit of choice yesterday at work.  The clothing is fitting much better!  And the legs are now fake tanned!

Another look–I’m loving this suiting ensemble so much.  Both were purchased years ago at J. Crew and I can wear the jacket with jeans!

For Jeans Friday it was high-waisted skinnies by AG, and my beloved French Hen Sweater from J. Crew. The shoes? Repetto’s from maybe eight years ago.  Nothing new here but it’s another outfit I love!

I wore this Monday.  I took the tights out of the drawer in the dark and realized they were blue so I ran upstairs and changed to green.  Now you know why I like bare legs!

Another recent look and it’s all J. Crew from years ago.  The booties were purchased last November in Paris during the Black Friday sales!

Hello!  I wore this today. The sweater (guess where I got it?) is about six years old and I think the skirt could be in high school by now.  But I love the combo of the pencil skirt, bare legs and sweater!

And here is one of my most-loved looks.  A faux suede mini skirt that was purchased at J. Crew Factory maybe three years ago.  I don’t know how old the boots are but this look is one of my faves. Its incredibly comfy!

And the clothing is fitting much better!

This is what I wore into NYC to meet my sisters.  In all honesty,  I overdressed. And by that I mean it was really warm and this outfit was just too hot.  I wasn’t comfortable but I love the combination.  This is better for heavy winter temperatures!

On Saturday, I met my two sisters and two nieces in NYC for lunch.  It was great to be back in the city so soon after the Hairdo event!

NYC twice in two weeks!  It’s almost as good as living back there!

We met at my nieces’ apartment; the two sisters are roomies.  And headed over to Lafayette. A really nice restaurant downtown.  I made a great choice with the Egg White Frittata and I have to say, coffee was the beverage of choice.  We’re not a day-drinking family unless it’s at a wedding!

Back on my home turf…

….headed to my nieces’ place on Mott Street!

We all have hearty appetities!

My choice as well as my niece Sarah, was the egg white frittata and it hit the spot!

My sister Germaine had the Bananas Foster French Toast. This thing was the size of a home-baked layer cake and she ate every last morsel.  I was jealous! My sister Theresa had lemon pancakes.  I was jealous.

We had a great time!

I wish we didn’t live so far away.  Theresa is in California and Germaine in Long Island!

I’m still searching for those lost posts because the topic was makeup!  Ahhh. I’ll just start new ones!  Instead I’ll leave you with a photo of scenes from my morning commute to work!

Thank God nobody was on the road because I snapped these whilst driving.  But slow driving!  My commute is through Valley Forge Park in PA and it calms me and relaxes me for the day ahead!

Have a great evening and I’ll hopefully find those posts!

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Hairdo, The Wig Company, NYC and an Event to Remember!

My wigs are my accessory.  I change them up most every day.  It’s important to me.

“Hair” I am in Whiteout by Hairdo!  The Wig Company sent it to me to wear to the Wig Out Event!

But more than that, my mission is to get women of the “mature” demographic to not shy away from wearing a synthetic crown of glory.

Yes Mature ladies!  Wear the hair….

Let’s face it, there are a plethora of reasons for wearing wigs.  Illness is most likely the main reason and I consider wigs the greatest non-drug medicine.  There are those of us who have lost hair due to autoimmune disease, stress, menopause, female balding pattern and many other reasons.

And my passion is putting out the word that wigs can be a great asset to the pro-aging woman–especially those wigs with a youthful vibe.

That’s right!  A Youthful vibe and trust me, The Wig Company has recently given themselves a facelift of sorts to become a more modern company and they are rockin’!!!

So, you can just imagine my surprise and delight when The Wig Company and Hairdo reached out to me to invite me as a guest to their Wig Out event in New York City this past Thursday evening.

Yup!  Me. Moi.  I can’t believe that I was on the receiving end of Hairdo and The Wig Company’s kindness and generosity!

Seriously, I was over-the-moon elated! I mean, come on, rarely is the mature demographic included in anything!  I couldn’t contain my happiness! Luckily, my PTO from work hasn’t been used up and I was able to take the day off from work.

And since it was a quick overnight, packing was a cinch!

My Longchamp Weekender was packed in less than a minute!

What would this event be like?  I’ve never been invited to a PR event so this was a big deal for me.

With Chippy in doggie day care for the next 24 hours, my husband and I headed off to Manhattan.  I called my son, Roman, to let him know we were coming in to “The city” and surprisingly, he had a few days off from his hectic schedule.  He would meet the Frenchman while I attended the event.  All was set into place.

 

 

The closer we got to the city, the more excited I got. And it was very exciting because there was no tunnel traffic!

OMG. It was so great to be back in NYC.  This is a vision of absolute beauty to me. I will always be a city girl!

We stayed at Sixty LES, a very, very nice boutique hotel on Allen Street. And to tell you the truth, I was a bit fascinated at how much the lower east side has changed since my days of a NYC resident. What used to be somewhat iffy area so close to Alphabet City has morphed into a trendy and hip area.

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60 LES is a GREAT boutique hotel. Might I suggest this venue for your next visit to the Big Apple?

With a bit of time before heading to the pre-event meeting, I was able to finally meet the friends I’ve made from The Wig Company and Hairdo in person!  Everyone was so incredibly welcoming and friendly. In fact, I felt like I was meeting a group of friends from my childhood.  There was no awkwardness or those silent moments. It all fell into place.

So, let me take you on a little tour of the fun. OK?

Welcome to Wig Out at 60 LES!!! Isn’t Poise & Berry so pretty?

The event was held in the Make Believe room on the 7th floor.  With a somewhat tropical vibe, comfy seating and wonderful views, it was the perfect place to wig out!

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The Make Believe room was transformed into an ethereal event of fantasy wigs!

All the fantasy wigs were on display with some sweet surprises!

Move over MGM Lion. Momma Lioness in her fabulous mane of Arctic Melt is watching over you!

Midnight Berry–a gorgeous angled bob was so hard to resist..

She’s gorgeously angled and the pigmented berry color is stupendous.  Photos do no justice1

If you love a bob and love a deep berry shade, she’s a winner!

Here’s Fierce Fire!  And if you have a fiesty personality and are fierce, this is a great banged bob!

Pinky Promise wig.  I promise you won’t be disappointed in her.  The length and style are very soft and flattering!

Here she is again and next to her, Peachy Keen, a lighter peach-toned bob!

Lilac Frost is next. And I have to say, this photo doesn’t showcase the beauty of this wig.  She’s one of those wigs that any woman with gray hair would look breathtaking in because it’s lilac with gray undertones.

Arctic Melt. This. Is. Mermaid. Hair!  And my photo isn’t all that great so….

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Here’s how she looks on.  She’s a stunner!

And my personal favorite of the evening (other than the Whiteout wig I was wearing) was this–Out of the Blue..

My biggest regret was not taking her home with me.  The more I look at her, the more I realize she’s that bob I love. Longer and bumped under at the ends.

I mean—look at her!  She gives new meaning to the phrase “blue haired lady”.  I’m kicking myself….and there’s fun-sized Crunch bars that I missed…

But I was able to take the bright and beautiful Poise & Berry in the shade Red Wine home!  I even did a YouTube review on her!

Sugared Pearl wig being styled!

The open bar provided for refreshing beverages and servers were walking around nonstop with food.  Everything looked so good but I opted for Zero-point salmon!

For some reason I was making this guy laugh all night!  And I only had two spritzers!

The photo booth was a great addition and I must say that I had an absolute blast with this one!

At the photo booth with my Long Eyelind twin!  HairUWear, Inc., CMO Michael Ferrara.   And he has a son named Roman!!  How cool is that???

My guys arrived shortly before the event ended but we were able to make a couple of photographic memories!

Me with my son Roman…

…and a rare appearance by the Frenchman!  Look!  He smiles!!!

And a lovely end of the evening with a beautiful view of the City I love so much!

Goodnight New York!  

Overall, I’m blessed to have been invited to such a fun event and it was a remarkably fun experience!  Thank you a million times to The Wig Company and Hairdo!

Below is a review I uploaded on the Hairdo Whiteout Wig!  She’s a great wig and I wore her three days in a row without any knotting or frizz. She’s a keeper!  Whiteout and all the Hairdo wigs featured on this post can be purchased from The Wig Company. There is always a great deal on TWC and the customer service is stellar!

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